So here’s my list of things I wished I would have done, in hindsight of course.

• Writing

I’ve had so many different opportunities to write in my life. And there has been quite a few of them that I’ve taken and they are a part of my life I cherish and remember. But in hindsight, I would have not stopped towards the end of 1995. I wished I would have kept up with the freelance work I was doing and venturing into my fictional works.

• Filming and movie making

As evidenced on this site by those who know of my videos I love to do, I’ve not done too many of them in 2010 and 2011. In hindsight, I should not have let the pressures of my day job and many, many other distractions I get multiple times a day, take me away from filming, editing and putting together even the silliest of videos.

• Giving my power away

A friend told me about 11 years ago that every time you let someone else control your life, you are giving your power away. A great piece of advice on how to live your life, which I have mostly ignored. Very similar to how I let other things distract me on a constant basis. But more along the lines of always doing what others ask of me and me almost always doing them. I don’t mind helping people, but I admit to being too nice and letting other take advantage of my time. In hindsight, I wished I had learned to politely say “NO” more often and kept my power over my life in many areas.

• Spent more time with my daughter

I do spend a good amount of time with my daughter, but there was a time during my divorce that I wished I would have spent more time with her. The many times I moved about and some of the darker times I experienced due to the lack of money and too many different substances I partook of. For the years of 2002 to 2006, I felt there wasn’t enough time I spent with her, which could have helped both of us. We have a good relationship now, but in hindsight, I think it could have been better.

• Had more video footage of my mom

Since the late 1980′s, I’ve had a video camera. And I’ve taken a ton of footage since then. But from what I remember, I don’t think I have a lot of footage of my mom. Now that she’s been gone for over 5 years, in hindsight, I wish I had more video footage of her. I look at the many photos I have and wish they could speak and move about.

• Exercising/Working out

Back in 2000, I joined Bally’s and worked out a lot. And up until about 2009, I found ways to stay active. My growing double chin and belly are two things I look at multiple times a day and I wish they would disappear. In hindsight, I should have continued working out and staying active. Especially since my yearly physical where my doctor told me that my blood sugar was a quite a bit higher than it should be. Now I add metFormin to my 2 pills I take daily for the next 3 months. I am using a treadmill several times a week, which is a good start. Maybe posting mostly naked pictures of me again will add to the motivation.

I may think of more, but those are the ones that I think of each and every day of my life. Not so much as a burden, but things that I really wished I had done that I want to be doing now or have memories of having done.

What things do you wish you had done, in hindsight?

I love technology. But I also miss certain parts of the years when I grew up. I also wonder what it would be like to have lived in another time. So with that, I thought… “Hmmm.. I wonder what it would be like to be in another time with something modern to take with me?”

Now I know some of you are now saying, “Hey… that sounds like some scene out of Back To The Future!”. And you know what, you would be partially right. I love that trio of movies and there was some melding of modern items that got transported between time continuums, which pretty much was the basis for the entire movie series.

So, ok… I kind of “borrowed” the idea. But hey, it’s cool to think about so let’s have some fun.

Here’s how it works:

• Pick a time that you would want to live in.
• Pick a modern device or item that you want to have in this other time.

For me, it’s the mid 1950′s. Hip music, cool cars and the start to some modern inventions. And to have a cell phone with full texting and internet capability, sending back messages to the present day, logging in to the web on my phone and looking up information. Retro time, modern device.

Pretty simple. Now you try it. Feel free to go into more detail if you’d like. I’m curious to read the responses.

Oh… one last thing. It’s going to snow here soon, and for at least four days straight. *hmmmm*